DAY 1: FIVE WAYS TO WIN YOUR HEART
This may be tricky. Anymore, I like to pretend there is a gaping hole in my chest and that I have no heart. So you can't exactly win something that's not there right? Anyway, we're getting off topic.
1. Must be good with kids. Having kids of my own, I know how hard they can be. But they can be the cutest, sweetest, little humans you ever meet. To win my heart someone has to be able to not only put up with tantrums and fit throwing, but also not get immediately annoyed by it. Kids throw fits. Especially toddlers. You know it, I know it, hell other children know it. Bonus points in this category go to single parents, because they have already seen and heard it all, so their is that support when you're feeling overwhelmed.
2. Patience is ALWAYS a good thing. I have mentioned before that I am riddled with anxieties and oddities related to them. I know that it causes other people, along with myself, unneeded and unnecessary stress. Believe me when I say that I know that my awkwardness around new people is embarrassing and that driving in new towns should be an adventure instead of a nightmare. Trust me, I know all this, I am the one who has to deal with it. Every. Single. Day. Just hold my hand, tell me it's okay, and let me know you're by my side.
3. Don't pressure me to tell you about things I might not be comfortable talking to you about yet. Once you earn that trust, it all comes up like word vomit, and you'll hear way more than you probably want to hear about how I turned from fun and spontaneous to an untrusting shut-in. It might take a long time for me to be open. But if you really want my heart, that will be no issue.
4. Don't flirt with other people. I have been cheated on one too many times, so now I can get a bit jealous. I don't care how many people hit on you, but I do care what your actions and answers about it are.
5. This one may seem clingy, but remember, I have been in some really awful relationships so it's kind of a given. Remind me that you care about me often. It can be something as simple as a text or you personally saying it to me.
Well, there we go! Day one is done! Have a fantastic evening!
xx
1. Must be good with kids. Having kids of my own, I know how hard they can be. But they can be the cutest, sweetest, little humans you ever meet. To win my heart someone has to be able to not only put up with tantrums and fit throwing, but also not get immediately annoyed by it. Kids throw fits. Especially toddlers. You know it, I know it, hell other children know it. Bonus points in this category go to single parents, because they have already seen and heard it all, so their is that support when you're feeling overwhelmed.
2. Patience is ALWAYS a good thing. I have mentioned before that I am riddled with anxieties and oddities related to them. I know that it causes other people, along with myself, unneeded and unnecessary stress. Believe me when I say that I know that my awkwardness around new people is embarrassing and that driving in new towns should be an adventure instead of a nightmare. Trust me, I know all this, I am the one who has to deal with it. Every. Single. Day. Just hold my hand, tell me it's okay, and let me know you're by my side.
3. Don't pressure me to tell you about things I might not be comfortable talking to you about yet. Once you earn that trust, it all comes up like word vomit, and you'll hear way more than you probably want to hear about how I turned from fun and spontaneous to an untrusting shut-in. It might take a long time for me to be open. But if you really want my heart, that will be no issue.
4. Don't flirt with other people. I have been cheated on one too many times, so now I can get a bit jealous. I don't care how many people hit on you, but I do care what your actions and answers about it are.
5. This one may seem clingy, but remember, I have been in some really awful relationships so it's kind of a given. Remind me that you care about me often. It can be something as simple as a text or you personally saying it to me.
Well, there we go! Day one is done! Have a fantastic evening!
xx
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